Welcome Readers! It is so hard to believe we are already in November. This is such a wonderful time of year for most people. However, the upcoming holidays can be very hard for others. They may be grieving and lonely or worried about financial troubles. Today’s blog is about how to help those who are hurting. A lot of people put up a good front and don’t show their deep hurts. Remember to always greet others with a smile.
Job 30:16 “And now my life seeps away. Depression haunts my days.”
Proverbs 15:13 “A glad heart makes a happy face; a broken heart crushes the spirit”
Proverbs 17:22 “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.”
Be aware of the effects of hurt on a person’s spirit, mind, and body. Awareness leads to sympathy, sympathy leads to empathy, empathy leads to helping, and helping leads to healing.
2 Corinthians 1:4 “He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”
Share your experiences of God’s comfort. God’s healing in you may bring hope and healing to others.
Job 16:2 “I have heard all this before. What miserable comforters you are!”
Be careful with the words you offer to the brokenhearted. Explanations and cliches are rarely comforting. Offer those who are hurting your love, sympathy, and presence. Sometimes the best comfort you can give is to just be there.
Job 42:11 “Then all his brothers, sisters, and former friends came and feasted with him in his home. And they consoled him and comforted him because of all the trials the Lord had brought against him. And each of them brought him a gift of money and a gold ring.”
Support your own family and friends. Family life should be a safe haven in a hurting world. The family should be both a healing clinic and a training camp where you learn to cope with and conquer hurtful influences.
If you are hurting or know someone who is, please send us a message. We will gladly pray for you. May God Bless You!
Be a blessing to others,
~M